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Wisdom at Dawn · Day 23

Proverbs 23 — Know what your appetite is asking for

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Proverbs 23:1–8, 17–21, 29–35

A humble traveler sets a wine cup aside and chooses a modest portion at an ancient banquet.

Proverbs 23

1When you sit to eat with a ruler, consider diligently what is before you;

2put a knife to your throat if you are a man given to appetite.

3Don’t be desirous of his dainties, since they are deceitful food.

4Don’t weary yourself to be rich. In your wisdom, show restraint.

5Why do you set your eyes on that which is not? For it certainly sprouts wings like an eagle and flies in the sky.

6Don’t eat the food of him who has a stingy eye, and don’t crave his delicacies,

7for as he thinks about the cost, so he is. “Eat and drink!” he says to you, but his heart is not with you.

8You will vomit up the morsel which you have eaten and waste your pleasant words.

9Don’t speak in the ears of a fool, for he will despise the wisdom of your words.

10Don’t move the ancient boundary stone. Don’t encroach on the fields of the fatherless,

11for their Defender is strong. He will plead their case against you.

12Apply your heart to instruction, and your ears to the words of knowledge.

13Don’t withhold correction from a child. If you punish him with the rod, he will not die.

14Punish him with the rod, and save his soul from Sheol.

15My son, if your heart is wise, then my heart will be glad, even mine.

16Yes, my heart will rejoice when your lips speak what is right.

17Don’t let your heart envy sinners, but rather fear the LORD all day long.

18Indeed surely there is a future hope, and your hope will not be cut off.

19Listen, my son, and be wise, and keep your heart on the right path!

20Don’t be among ones drinking too much wine, or those who gorge themselves on meat;

21for the drunkard and the glutton shall become poor; and drowsiness clothes them in rags.

22Listen to your father who gave you life, and don’t despise your mother when she is old.

23Buy the truth, and don’t sell it. Get wisdom, discipline, and understanding.

24The father of the righteous has great joy. Whoever fathers a wise child delights in him.

25Let your father and your mother be glad! Let her who bore you rejoice!

26My son, give me your heart; and let your eyes keep in my ways.

27For a prostitute is a deep pit; and a wayward wife is a narrow well.

28Yes, she lies in wait like a robber, and increases the unfaithful among men.

29Who has woe? Who has sorrow? Who has strife? Who has complaints? Who has needless bruises? Who has bloodshot eyes?

30Those who stay long at the wine; those who go to seek out mixed wine.

31Don’t look at the wine when it is red, when it sparkles in the cup, when it goes down smoothly.

32In the end, it bites like a snake, and poisons like a viper.

33Your eyes will see strange things, and your mind will imagine confusing things.

34Yes, you will be as he who lies down in the middle of the sea, or as he who lies on top of the rigging:

35“They hit me, and I was not hurt! They beat me, and I don’t feel it! When will I wake up? I can do it again. I will look for more.”

Scripture source: World English Bible, Protestant Edition (WEBP) — eBible.org. Public domain. Rights

Reflection

Original reflection by Fall 7 Rise 8 Ministry

Proverbs 23 examines appetites that can govern us: rich food, wealth, envy, and intoxication. The repeated concern is discernment. What looks desirable may carry a cost the first glance does not reveal.

Envy is one of the quieter appetites. It can make another person's visible success seem more persuasive than the patient fear of the Lord. We see the banquet and miss the bondage, or see the reward and overlook the compromise behind it.

Ask what you are reaching for when you are restless. Comfort, recognition, escape, and belonging are real human needs, but not every offered remedy will nourish you. Where an appetite has become destructive, seeking practical and professional support can be a wise step alongside prayer. There is dignity in telling the truth and receiving help. Begin with one honest admission rather than another promise made in secrecy.

Today's practice

Identify one appetite driving your decisions. Choose a wise boundary or reach out for appropriate support.

Prayer

Jesus, meet me in the desires I struggle to govern. Give me honesty, wise support, and strength for the next faithful step. Teach me contentment in you. Amen.

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